知道别人靠不住,就逼自己努力,这不是一种成长吗?
If you know that others are unreliable, you force yourself to work hard. Isn this a kind of growth?
曾经见过自己想痴情,辛苦等了对方多年,结果别人变成了给别人幸福;
Ive seen myself wanting to be infatuated and waiting for each other for many years. As a result, others become happy to others;
这样的相处方式,没有人能忍受,时间久了,你总会放弃,会清醒。
No one can stand this way of getting along. After a long time, you will always give up and wake up.
明知你和他已无法再在,却不愿掏空那些回忆,那些只属于你的曾经,对你来说是珍贵的。
Knowing that you and he can no longer be together, but unwilling to empty out those memories, those that only belong to you, are precious to you.
青春的流逝总是安静的,直到你注意到,才发现生命已过半。
The passage of youth is always quiet. You don find that half of life is over until you notice it.
选择放手有时候就等于清理了你的负担。
Choosing to let go is sometimes cleaning up your burden.
当然,这种考虑只有在她面对你的时候才会被释放。
Of course, this consideration will only be released when she faces you.
自从你离开他之后就没有他的消息了。
I haven heard from him since you left him.
但这是真的吗?你爱的人真的在想着你吗?
But is this true? Is the person you love really thinking of you?
如果彼此的心足够坚强,那么就能彼此原谅和容忍,这样,也就避免了伤害。
If each others hearts are strong enough, they can forgive and tolerate each other. In this way, they can avoid harm.
有时候,逼自己一把,还活了下来,不要总以为活一天就会享受,那是不可能的。
Sometimes, its impossible to force yourself to survive. Don always think that you will enjoy living one day.