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看故事学英语：《Giving Advice》唯有言行一致，方能说服别人看故事学英语：《Giving Advice》唯有言行一致，方能说服别人
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05 1406:30Once there was a little boy became obsessed with eating sweets. His mother got worried because of his excessive sweet eating habit and tried many ways to stop him from eating.
曾经有一个小男孩贪吃甜食。因为他过度的吃甜食习惯，他的母亲很担心，并尝试了很多方法阻止他吃。
However nothing seemed to work.
但似乎没什么用。
Near near village lived a wise man who was respected by everyone. So she decided to take him to that wise man, in hope that her son may listen to him.
村庄附近住着一位广受尊重的智者。所以她决定把他带到智者那里，希望她的儿子可以听他的话。
Mother went to wise man with her son. There she met him and said, “My son, eats sweets every time. Will you please tell him that it’s bad for his health?”
母亲带儿子去了智者那里，对智者说：“我的儿子每次都吃甜食。能麻烦你告诉他这对他的健康是有害吗？“
After listening to her, wise man thought for a while and refused to give any advice to that boy at that time. He asked mother to return to him after a month.
听了她的话，智者思考了一会儿，当即拒绝向那个男孩提出任何建议。智者让母亲一个月后再找他。
She wondered why he asked them to return after a month, why not tell boy to stop eating sugar at that time yet she left.
她想知道为什么智者要求他们在一个月后回来，为什么当时不告诉孩子别吃糖，而让她离开。
Later, she returned to wise man and this time wise man took boy for a walk and after a while returned. He looked at boy and said, “Boy, You should stop eating sugar because its not good for health.”
后来，她回到智者那里，这次智者带着男孩散步，过了一会儿就回来了。他看着男孩说：“孩子，别再吃糖了，因为它不利于健康。”
Boy nodded and promise that he will no eat sugar anymore. After this mother left with her son.
男孩点点头，承诺不再吃糖了。这次母亲带着儿子离开了。
Few days later she returned to wise man and said, “Thank you for your help. Boy has kept his promise made to you and hadnt eaten sugar since then.”
几天后，她回到智者面前说：“谢谢你的帮助。孩子一直遵守他的承诺，从那时起就没有吃过糖。“
She was curious about why holy man needed a month to tell her son that. So she asked holy man, “When i first came to you. Why didnt you told my son to stop eating sugar right then? Why did you asked me to return after a month?”
她很好奇为什么圣人需要一个月才能告诉她的儿子。所以她问圣人，“我第一次来找你的时候。你当时为什么不告诉我儿子不要吃糖？又为什么要我在一个月后回来？“
Wise man smiled and replied, “At that time, I used to eat sugar myself and i didn’t had right to tell your kid eat stop eating sugar.But now i dont eat sugar anymore.Thats why i was able to tell your kid to stop eating sugar.”
智者微笑着回答说：“那时我自己也常常吃糖，所以我没有权利让你的孩子不再吃糖。但现在我不再吃糖了。这就是为什么我能告诉你的孩子别再吃糖的原因。“
Moral:
A persons example is much powerful than just words. When we ask a person to do something, we must do it ourselves too. Always make sure that your actions matches your words.
寓意：
榜样的力量远比言语强大得多。当我们要求一个人做某事的时候，我们自己也必须这样做。始终确保言行一致。
想要说服别人，首先自己应当做到，否则说什么都是站不住脚的。一个人能说服自己才有可能说服别人，而不会因为自己年长或者自持为家长就有什么话语上的威严，甚至是命令。
有些家长在家抽烟，但是却不让孩子抽烟，但家长们应该清楚的是，自己的行为对孩子有深刻的影响，孩子会误以为家长的行为是可以模仿的，至于有什么坏处，孩子们是考虑不到的。这不是他们的错，因为他们还小，一切好的坏的新奇的事物他们都想尝试，这是他们探索和学习这个世界的方式。
所以家长一定要注意自己的言行，做好孩子的第一任老师，培养孩子良好的习惯，才是他们终生的财富。
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