the house was causing Li Lis poor husband great distress.
Finally, Li Li could not stand her mother in Law s bad temperanddictatorship any longer, and she decided to do something about it!Li Liwent to see her fathers good friend, Mr. Huang, who sold herbs.Shetold him the situation and asked if he would give her some poisonsothat she could solve the problem once and for all.
Mr. Huang thought for a while, and finally said, "Li Li, I willhelp yousolve your problem, but you must listen to me and obey what I tellyou."
Li Li said, "Yes, Mr. Huang, I will do whatever you tell me todo." Mr.Huang went into the back room, and returned in a few minutes withapackage of herbs. He told Li Li, "You cant use a quick actingpoison toget rid of your mother in law, because that would cause people tobecomesuspicious. Therefore, I have given you a number of herbs thatwillslowly build up poison in her body. Every other day preparesomedelicious meal and put a little of these herbs in her serving. Now,inorder to make sure that nobody suspects you, when she dies, youmust be
very careful to act very friendly towards her. "Dont argue withher,obey her every wish, and treat her like a queen." Li Li was sohappy.She thanked Mr. Huang and hurried home to start her plot ofmurderingher mother in law. Weeks went by, and months went by, and everyotherday, Li Li served the specially treated food to her mother in law.Sheremembered what Mr. Huang had said about avoiding suspicion, soshecontrolled her temper, obeyed her mother in law, and treated herlikeher own mother.
After six months had passed, the whole household had changed.Li Li hadpracticed controlling her temper so much that she found that shealmostnever got mad or upset. She hadnt had an argument with hermother in law in six months because she now seemed much kinderandeasier to get along with.
The mother in laws attitude toward Li Li changed, and she beganto loveLi Li like her own daughter. She kept telling friends and relativesthatLi Li was the best daughter in law one could ever find. Li Li andhermother in law were now treating each other like a real motheranddaughter. Li Lis husband was very happy to see what was happening.Oneday, Li Li came to see Mr. Huang and asked for his help again Shesaid,"Dear Mr. Huang, please help me to keep the poison from killingmymother in law. Shes changed into such a nice woman, and I love herlikemy own mother. I do not want her to die because of the poison Igaveher."
Mr. Huang smiled and nodded his head. "Li Li, theres nothing toworryabout. I never gave you any poison. The herbs I gave you werevitamins
to improve her health. The only poison was in your mind andyourattitude toward her, but that has been all washed away by the lovewhichyou gave to her."
HAVE YOU REALIZED that how you treat others is exactly how theywilltreat you? There is a wise Chinese saying: "The person who lovesotherswill also be loved in return." God might be trying to work inanotherpersons life through you.
If you send itto others you may changetheirlives. After all you have got nothing to lose but a lot togain."A candle loses nothing if it is used to light another one"。
这是一位客人发给我的，其实生活中每个人在与人交往中都像是一面镜子，你对待别人的态度和方式会同样投射到自己身上。所以，请以自己希望别人对待自己的方式来善待别人吧。看到此处说明本文对你还是有帮助的，关于“一个关于人际交往的故事”留言是大家的经验之谈相信也会对你有益，推荐继续阅读下面的相关内容，与本文相关度极高！
